[Parentsgroup-list] birth center and book

Deborah Freedman Woods dwoods at cfa.harvard.edu
Wed Nov 19 10:35:51 EST 2008

I delivered my 2nd at Mt. Auburn last January with an OB
from Harvard Vanguard Medical Assoc.  Overall, the
experience was positive but not ideal.  The nursing staff
was fantastic -- attentive, supportive, and capable.  My OB
was reassuring and responsive to our wishes.  Fortunately
the delivery progressed smoothly, and there was no need to
consider any interventions.  The postpartum staff was
thoughtful and respected our wishes to be left alone as
much as possible.

The one BIG drawback was the wait and complications
associated with the epidural.  I had to wait about 2 1/2
hours from when I requested an epidural until the
anesthesiologist arrived.  The delivery ward was full,
but that was only half the reason for the long wait.  The
anesthesiologist had a lot of trouble putting it in
correctly. She didn't seem competent: it took her 30 min
and she hit a nerve, which hurt for several weeks after.

If not for the epidural, I would have been happy with my
experience at Mt. Auburn.

On a side note, Joy mentioned the lactation consultants and
breastfeeding support group at the Cambridge Birth Center.
The support group is open to anyone, no matter where you
deliver.  The lactation consultants are wonderful.  I esp.
love Kate, who runs the Thursday morning group.  It's a
really warm, supportive environment for nursing moms,
whether or not you need help with breastfeeding issues.

Good luck with your decision.

Deb Woods

On Tue, 18 Nov 2008, Nicole Flores wrote:

> Thank you, Joy, for the information.
> Has anyone else had any experiences (positive or negative) with
> delivering at Mount Auburn (particularly with the midwives practices)?
> -Nikki
> <-----Original Message----->
> >From: Joy Geren [joygeren at gmail.com]
> >Sent: 11/18/2008 3:01:35 PM
> >To: emilie.cappella at gmail.com
> >Cc: Parentsgroup-list at lists.hcs.harvard.edu
> >Subject: Re: [Parentsgroup-list] birth center and book
> >
> >I had my second at Cambridge Birth Center (had the first with the
> midwives at
> >Mt. Auburn). This was the ideal place for me and my family. Everyone
> was so
> >helpful and kind. They handled my pregnancy complications very
> professionally
> >and offered me the support I needed to stick to a natural birth plan
> despite
> >them. Everyone gets a free doula for the birth and to help at home
> afterwards if
> >you wish. I did face a bit of a problem during the birth, I started to
> pass out
> >when I was fully dialated.. They handled the situation with the calm
> and ease of
> >an ER staff but in the comfort of a bedroom. My baby never left me
> after the
> >delivery (no ankle tags or wheely carts needed), big brother came to
> see his
> >sister as soon as he woke up and our whole family, daddy included,
> could all
> >cuddle in bed together (siblings and others may attend the birth but I
> chose to
> >leave my 2 year old at home sleeping). I was home in less than 12 hours
> and
> >never missed a night of showering with my toddler or tucking him in
> bed. I have
> >also talked to 2 women who had to be transfered to the hospital when
> things
> >weren't going normally and both said they were quite pleased with the
> transfer
> >decision and the care they got at Cambridge hospital. Another perk is
> access to
> >the free sessions with certified lactation consultants offered 2
> mornings a
> >week. You can go as often as you need to get nursing help or to just
> visit other
> >moms who have very young babies.
> >
> >I liked Mt. Auburn and considered it a positive experience but there
> are certain
> >drawbacks to delivering in a hospital. For me these included catching a
> very
> >serious bacterial infection usually only contracted in hospitals (I had
> a
> >completely natural birth but contracted C. difficile and was very ill
> for
> >weeks). Also my husband and newborn were in the nursery for 3 hours
> shortly
> >after the birth. My baby was fine but there were others that needed
> urgent
> >attention so they just held my baby at the nursery while he waited for
> the
> >routine bathing, etc. I really did not like being alone, had no clue
> what was
> >happening with my baby and missed some critical bonding time despite
> the fact
> >that neither he nor I needed any urgent medical care. I loved the
> midwives of
> >Mt. Auburn but do not like that they have to catch babies in a
> hospital, having
> >a hosptial next door for emergencies was much better for us.
> >
> >Hope that helps!
> >Joy, G7 and mom to Toby 3yrs and Della 6m
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >On Tue, Nov 18, 2008 at 11:01 AM, milie cappella
> <emilie.cappella at gmail.com> wrote:
> >
> >Hi,
> >Does anyone have an experience at the Cambridge Birth Center that she
> would like
> >to share ? I'm due May 2nd and I wish to give birth there but I'm still
> >registered at the B&W Hospital.
> >By the way, I have read and liked "The happiest toddler on the block"
> for my
> >fist child and would like to know if "the happiest baby on the block"
> is good
> >too and if someone wants to sell his book to me.
> >Thanks !
> >Emilie Cappella
> >
> >
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> >
> >
> >
> >
> >--
> >Joy Geren, M.A.
> >Doctoral Candidate
> >Laboratory for Developmental Studies
> >Department of Psychology
> >Harvard University

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